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Miss Manners: You’re married to my son, but I am not ‘Mom’

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:40:19 GMT

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My son is getting married soon to a lady I’ve not yet met, although we have spoken on the phone several times. My issue is that I do not want my new daughter-in-law to call me “Mom.”My son was very briefly married once before, and that daughter-in-law called me “Mom” without an invitation to do so — at least not from me. I believe my son may have instructed her to do so. When we met, I said, “Hello, I’m Mabel Jo” so that she would understand I did not want her to have to address me formally as “Mrs. X.”How can I tactfully request that his new wife not call me “Mom”? It has nothing to do with her, I just don’t like the practice.GENTLE READER: Talk to your son. It sounds to Miss Manners as if he may have been the one who planted the “Mom” idea with the first wife.Explain that you would like the honor of asking his prospective wife to call you by your first name. Surely he...

Dear Abby: She upset her grandmother with this out-of-line fashion choice

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:40:19 GMT

DEAR ABBY: My 20-year-old niece, “Andrea,” went to visit her grandmother wearing a nose stud.Andrea is quiet, is polite to her grandparents and aunt and is in her third year of college.Her grandmother is livid at her daughter for “allowing” the girl to do this. (It appears Andrea may be trying to rebel at this age.)Her grandmother is footing the bill for her college.Who can help the grandmother to get her granddaughter to stop this behavior, and how?Related ArticlesAdvice | Dear Abby: His family doesn’t know we’ve been sneaking around Advice | Dear Abby: Is it cheating on my husband to kiss the men that I date? Advice | Dear Abby: I was appalled to see this side of my longtime friend Advice | Dear Abby: These hotshots have spoiled our small-town bowling league Advice | Dear Abby: I regret giving this gift. After all these years, can I ask for it back? Andrea has never ...

Vieira fired by relegation-threatened Crystal Palace

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:40:19 GMT

LONDON (AP) — Patrick Vieira was fired by Crystal Palace on Friday with the team having been dragged into the Premier League’s relegation fight.Palace is in 12th place in the 20-team league but is only five points from last-place Southampton.The team has lost three straight league games and has no wins in any competition in 2023. Vieira, the former Arsenal midfielder, was in the role for 20 months.___More AP tennis: https://apnews.com/hub/tennis and https://twitter.com/AP_SportsSource

Teen facing multiple charges after allegedly attacking postal worker with a machete

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:40:19 GMT

A teenage boy is facing multiple charges after allegedly attacking a USPS letter carrier with a machete, according to Lowell police. Deputy Superintendent Mark LeBlanc said the incident happened around 5:30 p.m. on Tuesday in the area of Porter Street, where police found a postal worker who had suffered injuries to his “right hand and wrist area.”Speaking with officers, the adult male victim said he was assaulted after he found the alleged suspect in his mail truck while returning from a delivery.Before being assaulted, the carrier alleged the suspect pointed an airsoft rifle at the him. The carrier alleged that when he attempted to defend himself, the suspect allegedly took a machete from his waistband and slashed at the carrier before fleeing.LeBlanc said the victim was taken to a hospital for treatment as officers canvassed the area.According to the deputy superintendent, police located the juvenile a short distance away and took him into custody after a foot pursuit.The suspect ...

Howie Carr: MassGOP nightmare needs to end

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:40:19 GMT

Have you ever had a check bounce, or had one of your credit cards declined?The answer is probably yes. But I’m guessing that you didn’t then file a lawsuit demanding $5-6 million in damages because of the “torture” that you suffered from this “most outrageous” and “unbelievable” atrocity that ever happened to you.But then, you’re not Jim “Jones” Lyons, the 69-year-old crackpot former chairman of the Massachusetts GOP state committee.In statewide elections, Lyons went zero for both 2020 and 2022, losing every single major race and referendum. He made the GOP into a political death cult, turning a $700,000 surplus when he took over in 2019 into a $600,000 deficit as he was ejected in ignominy six weeks ago.Now he’s filed one of the most frivolous lawsuits of all time – Jim Jones Lyons vs. his own committee treasurer, Patrick Crowley, a CPA from Worcester.The lawsuit is worth mentioning today because it will soon be dismissed. The same state committee that ousted Lyons for his singleha...

Clarke Schmidt throws five perfect innings, Jasson Dominguez sent down to minors

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:40:19 GMT

Clarke Schmidt bounced back from two rough Grapefruit League appearances by throwing five perfect innings in Thursday’s start against the Pittsburgh Pirates. His outing was wasted as the Yankees lost the matchup, 9-6, but Schmidt cruised through his third start of the spring.The right-hander pounded the strike zone, getting 36 strikes out of 50 total pitches thrown. He struck out seven and recorded seven groundball outs.Schmidt entered camp competing with right-hander Domingo German for a rotation spot. German may have been viewed as the frontrunner for the Yankees’ fifth and final rotation spot due to him having more experience and a better start in the first two Grapefruit League appearances — allowing just one run in 5.1 innings. Schmidt’s most recent outing was clearly better than German’s last start — allowing three hits and two earned runs in 2.1 innings — but the two may both start the season in the rotation due to their teammates dea...

Trump vs. DeSantis: Rivals’ very different styles on display

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:40:19 GMT

DAVENPORT, Iowa (AP) — In his first trip to Iowa this year, Ron DeSantis did not take any questions from voters. He ignored the local press. He avoided the diners, pizza parlors and ice cream shops that have helped presidential contenders in the leadoff voting state showcase their personal appeal and charisma for decades.For DeSantis, a leading Republican presidential prospect, it was simply business as usual. The hard-charging Florida governor has emerged as a potent force in national politics while eschewing the personal connections, intimate moments and unscripted questions that have long fueled successful White House bids in the states that sit atop the presidential primary calendar. And as DeSantis begins to introduce himself to primary voters in the weeks leading up to his expected announcement, he is showing little interest in changing his ways.Allies insist he doesn’t need to adjust anything, pointing to his dominant 19-point reelection victory last fall. But already, ...

Slovakia agrees to give Ukraine fleet of Soviet warplanes

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:40:19 GMT

BRATISLAVA, Slovakia (AP) — Slovakia’s government has approved a plan to give Ukraine its fleet of Soviet-era MiG-29 fighter jets.Prime Minister Eduard Heger announced the unanimous decision of his government on Friday. Slovakia no longer uses the jets.The decision makes Slovakia the second NATO member country to agree to fulfill the Ukrainian government’s persistent pleas for warplanes to help defend against Russia’s invasion. On Thursday, Poland’s president said his country would give Ukraine around a dozen MiG-29 fighter jets. President Andrzej Duda said Thursday that Poland would hand over four of the Soviet-made warplanes in the coming days and others that need servicing and would be supplied later. Follow AP’s coverage of the war in Ukraine: https://apnews.com/hub/russia-ukraine-warThe Associated Press

Anger spreads in France over Macron’s retirement bill push

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:40:19 GMT

PARIS (AP) — Protesters disrupted traffic in Paris on Friday as angry critics, political opponents and labor unions around France blasted President Emmanuel Macron’s decision to force a bill raising the retirement age from 62 to 64 through parliament without a vote. Opposition parties were expected to start procedures later Friday for a no-confidence vote on the government led by Prime Minister Elisabeth Borne. The vote would likely take place early next week. Macron ordered Borne on Thursday to wield a special constitutional power to push the highly unpopular pension bill through without a vote in the National Assembly, France’s lower house of parliament. His calculated risk infuriated opposition lawmakers, many citizens and unions. Thousands gathered in protest Thursday at the Place de la Concorde, which faces the National Assembly building. As night fell, police officers charged the demonstrators in waves to clear the Place. Small groups then moved through nearby stre...

China’s Xi to visit Moscow in show of support for Putin

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:40:19 GMT

BEIJING (AP) — Chinese President Xi Jinping plans to visit Russia from Monday to Wednesday, in an apparent show of support for Russian President Vladimir Putin amid sharpening East-West tensions over the war in Ukraine. Russia’s ongoing invasion of Ukraine is expected to dominate Putin and Xi’s discussions. China has refused to condemn Moscow’s aggression and sought to project itself as neutral in the conflict even while Beijing declared last year that it had a “no-limits” friendship with Russia. The meeting between the leaders was announced by both countries on Friday.China has said the sovereignty and territorial integrity of all countries should be respected, while condemning Western sanctions and accusing NATO and the United States of provoking Russia into military action.On Thursday, Chinese Foreign Minister Qin Gang told his Ukrainian counterpart Dmytro Kuleba that Beijing was concerned about the year-old conflict spinning out of control and urged talks on a politi...